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3 On line Dating Errors That Would Cause Failure
While you browse the web for that special lady...the one of your dreams...your soul-mate...the other half of yourself, you can do many things right. Sadly, you can, also, do a lot of things wrong....things that will cause failure and a broken heart. In the "real" world, being tough, demanding excellence and even little white lies are all elements for success. However, those same characteristics are killers when you are dating on line and off line, too, for that matter.
There is a big distinction between being aggressive or optimistic and being very aggressive, over-confident, or just plain sordid or shady from a woman's viewpoint. If you push too hard for a face-to-face, you will come across as too aggressive...maybe even, scary. Keep in mind that you are not closing a business dealing and keep the association advancing at a slow but steady pace. Tolerance is the key.
Nobody is perfect. We are all flawed in some way or another...and that involves you, as well. If you prefer the woman to be totally perfect and demand that, you will often be upset. Demanding perfectionism in your job is one thing. Demanding perfectionism from a friend, co-worker or a lady you are interested in is not just good. It won't happen. Count on flaws and just manage them. Make up your mind the ones you can accept and those you can't.
Little white lies and false fronts won't do the trick. Be honest from the beginning of a relationship. Write your profile. Make it interesting but don't make false remarks. The real truth will show up ultimately anyway. If you state you are a lawyer who earns a million bucks a year and you are really an electrician that makes $75,000, you have set yourself up for failure.
Remember...don't be too tough, expect to ever find perfection or use a false front.
And when you meet her, if you wish to ask questions of her, make it in a gentlemanly, not rough, way. I suggest you try Mr. L. Rx's book "Dating To Relating - From A To Z" otherwise perform a search for phrases like "speed seduction", "doubleyourdating", or "david deangelo books", so you can learn how to approach women with queries in a live conversation.
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