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Get Back Together With Your Ex-Girlfriend Just By Being Less Attainable And More Of A Challenge For Her
You were a challenge for her. You had a superior significance and she had been irresistibly drawn to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"
I am going to make a wild guess here, and yet can it be that as time went on, you grew to become less and less of a challenge for her? And is it that right now, you might be absolutely no challenge for her? And that she understands that if she wanted to, at any time she could get you back again and wrapped around her finger by simply saying the word?
I am going to be crude here, but as you may already know, to become a challenge once more you must prove to your ex-girlfriend that her sexuality does not have any control over you any more. Think about what it's like when you are stalking her with not returned telephone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And after that think of just what it is like when you keep on doing it (as quite a few guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You will be implying to the woman that you are a low-value guy without any other sexual alternatives.
She will not respect you again until you refuse her sexual dominance over you. Thankfully you are doing that now by not specifically interacting with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.
Be sure you stay 100% rigid with your communication cut-off. Be careful not to be "pals" with her, because that rewards her with the continuing consent of power over you while giving her a convenient reason to stay broken up. (Your lover justifies that she's letting you down easy that way, assuaging virtually any guilt she may experience.)
On the other hand, make sure to keep her locked in with your things. In all likelihood lots of your belongings are at her residence, and vice versa. She may also owe you money as well. She could ask a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you want all of it back again.
The ideal response to this is simply "No, not yet. The justification is because her holding onto your stuff (and you possessing hers) is still locking the two of you in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to provide her the psychological closure that would be caused by settling your accounts.
For the up coming 3 weeks, you must fully accept -- and embrace -- the undeniable fact that you're an independent person now. Take what occurred with your ex and learn from it. You've got a golden chance to transform your life which will ultimately allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.
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