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Ways To Attract Ladies - Unclear Responses And Flirting
When we are talking about the topic of "picking up women." I often get asked what to do to be able to "pick up women", or just "how to pick up women".
I recently got asked the question: "Why do women flirt with you and when you flirt back they snub it? It's so misleading!!!" I thought it was interesting and significant enough to share.
To begin with, women have different qualities. What is being described here is a type of personality, not all women in general. The personality type that generally does this kind of actions is a little shaky. They are testing the water, but they don't really want to make a start.
The best way to deal with this personality type is when you find it is not to react, not to take the bait so to speak. Let the girl flirt all she wants, let her take the lead. Let her handle how the romance goes. If you don't react, she will feel at ease with you and steepen the gradient over time. If you react (flirt back) she will often skip out.
Difficulty is, however, people with similar or compatible personalities tend to hang out together. So sometimes you can get the opinion that the whole world is in one direction, when in fact it may be just a certain percentage of people who are like that. So if you always think ALL women are one way, alter your environment. Go to some other place, meet different people in different situations and perhaps you will discover different personality types and perhaps one that is more appropriate for you.
Now having said that, let's observe it from a different angle. Women in general like flirting for flirting's sake more than gents do. Men will flirt mainly because they are interested in a woman. Girls will flirt to see if they get a reaction, to see if they are looking good and are desirable, even when they are not fascinated with a man. They will flirt with a man they are only keen on being friends with.
One way to get better hold of these situations is to observe all the communication channels that a woman is using to communicate - Like verbal, emotional, physical, psychological, and sexual communications.
When a girl likes you she probably will communicate that she likes you across all of the communications modes. When she is simply playing around she will give you mixed communications. So when you see a woman flirting with you, but she does not back up the flirting by showing you she likes you across ALL the communication channels - don't take the flirtation serious.
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